Being a solopreneur can feel quite lonely. So can being a mother, a product person, a highly-sensitive individual… I made it my mission to bridge the gap between my professional and my private life to show up as authentically and whole-heartedly as I can, inviting others to connect with me from human to human. In this section you can check out extracts from my personal newsletter „Tanja’s Butterflies“.
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I'm a voice message enthusiast, but answering machines freak me out. I'm repelled by the polished Linkedin world, yet I'm a part of it.I'm a passionate host who needs the house to herself. I'm a philantropist hiding from people. An introvert seeking the stage. A courageous coward. A wonderful mess. Life's intriguingly complicated, filled with contradictory force fields. Which paradoxes are you trying to make sense of in your life?Lots of love,Tanja ...
As a kid I used to read the last pages of a book before starting the first chapter. I just had to know how it all ended. As a teenager I dreamed of a magic remote control. One that would teleport me to better times. In fact, two very distinct moments in time: I immediately wanted to turn 18 ...
The other day, I found my husband reading a railway newspaper (yes, they do exist) on our couch. Surrounded by sofa cushions thrown all over the place by our lovely kids, the floor covered in bread crumbs from the last meal, dishes piling up in the sink. It was one of the rare moments the kids happened to play by themselves without killing each other. One of those precious moments...
In the past couple of months, we have digested some deep and sometimes dark topics here. So I felt like it was time for a very different story. And since the majority voted for it in the last newsletter, let's talk about FUN 🙂 13 years ago I broke up with my high-school boyfriend whom I had been living with for a couple of years. "When we'll have kids, I am going to be the fun dad and you are going to be the serious mom.", he said one day. It was meant as a joke, but at the same time it wasn't. It was the most condensed mental model of how he perceived our roles, even without being parents back then. Me doing the dishes,...
A few weeks ago, my former student Antonia reflected on Linkedin about her habit of outing herself in new groups as pet lover and nerd - even in a professional context. So she was asking herself: "Where’s your line between personal and work life? How much of yourself do you show your colleagues? Has it ever backfired? Or have you ever benefited from it?" Unconsciously, this was the starting point of today's post, but it didn't bubble up until after I had published my last "Butterflies" about FILTERS talking about highly sensitive people. Writing it brought back a recent episode where I was asked to fill out an application form for Maya's kindergarden. I reached the comment section where we were supposed to mention any additional...